Day 36: Last Night Of Spring Break

Surprisingly enough I didn't talk about my Spring Break at all in my blog....

That may be because I didn't do anything.

I decided to stay in Tempe for Spring Break and the only other person that was here was one of my best friends Brandalyn.

Since no one was here we had to make our own fun!

So of course we went clubbing a couple of times and tanned practically all week. We also went to the mall and rode bikes around campus. Went to see She's Out of My League, which was really funny. Then obviously slept when we NEEDED too lol.

It was actually a really relaxing fun spring break....I'm just ready for all my friends to be back, but I'm not ready for the next two months of school!

How was your spring break??

Peace

Chelss*

Day 35: The Dating World

I feel like the dating world has totally changed from when my parents were younger, and even when my grandparents were younger.

In today's society there are alot of group dates instead of single dating.

No one asks people out on a date anymore. People are always going in groups.

Has anyone ever noticed that. It feels like now a days alot of girls have to sometimes make the first move to let a guy know that they are into them. Guys expect that now, but in reality EVERY girl wants the guy to make the first move like old times.

Step it up boyss!!

Peace

Chelss*

Day 34: Round 2 for Sophomore Year

I now officially am a renter of an appartment for next year...

Thank god it is on campus so it is close to everything and I can use financial aid to pay for it :]

I also have finished my FAFSA so I can get money to still attend college!!

I also found out that I could possibly have a job this Fall working as a success coach...

Things are really looking good for me.

Peace

Chelss*

Day 33: Stereotypes and Labels

I know earlier in my blog I had touched on stereotypes in the racism post...

But I don't feel like I touched on it enough...

Everyday people are put down by a name. Just one name does it.

I have always wondered why, when a girl sleeps with a guy after knowing him for one night or two weeks she is IMMEDIATELY dubbed a whore or being too easy, but then guy in the situation is now considered a "god" for "bagging" this girl....

Sticky situation huh? Well trust me boys, you have nicknames too in girl world.

It just doesn't make any sense.

Or how about when you see someone walking around wearing black everyday and you call them Gothic? They aren't Gothic, black is just their favorite color. Or because some guy dresses really nice people may think immediately that he is gay.

Well in the end those people that stereotype like that will end up seeing those people's true colors. That person wearing all black may end up being a great artist or business person. And that guy you thought was gay? He is married to that beautiful blond you could never get with.

Those girls that you think are whores? Well they are pimps in the end too aren't they?

I love how when one girl is a whore, people just assume that all of them will be at some point.

I had a friend who slept with every person that she dated. Yes she dated ALL of them, but in the end was still told she was easy and a skank.

At least she wasn't having one night stands right?

I was recently told that because I ended my relationship that I wanted to go around whoring myself and sleeping with various guys to have fun. Well there are plenty of other ways to have fun then just "sleeping with guys". Just because you may have seen a bunch of girls doing that doesn't mean they all will.

All I can say is that jealousy and immaturity plays a big part is this portion of our society especially in my generation.

I just wish people would put this behind them and realize that labels and stereotypes get you no where. Everyone is different in their own way. No one knows someone as well as they think they do. So think the next time you want to say something about someone you barely know.

Peace

Chelss*

Day 32: Music of the Decades...

I was listening to INXS today with my friend and was just wondering what it was like in the 80's to dance to this music or be dancing to Madonna.

And what about the 70's disco, what is really jivin'?

I look at how different our music is today from all the music of the past, and I sit here and think what are our kids going to think of our music when they get older?

I love old music. I love 80's and 70's. I especially love some 50's music too. It is so unique and it all shaped the music we have today.

So what do you think will be in the next generations to come? What is your favorite musical decade?

Peace

Chelss*

Day 31: Facebook Challenge...

Today my friend is challenging me NOT to go on Facebook for 24 hoursss....

This will star at 1:00 today.

I'm taking this challenge, because she believes I'm addicited...


So see you in a day (or so ) Facebook :]


Peace

Chelss*

Day 30: Tanner and Tanner....

Spring break is every college girls dream to lay out everyday in the gleaming sun and bake their troubles away....

Yes, tanning seems to be an essential to stay "healthy" and beautiful now a days.

I will admit I am an avid tanner myself. I tan very easily and never burn for some reason. That might be the Spanish in me :]

Of course living in Arizona and being a Floridian most of my life it has been so easy for me to just go out and tan. I realize that a lot of people like to fake and bake (which I have done myself only during winter time), to get the real effect of being "glamorous".

I have now been laying out for 3 days straight in the great sun of AZ. It is kinda bad for you I understand, and I do have the problem that I am allergic to sunscreen :/, but I have never had a problem with my skin burning and peeling so I'm not too concerned.

I do see girls that are very very tan and I feel like that is a little unnecessary. I don't want to be that dark, because later I will not age well.

Of course now tanning is a daily thing to some people, ever since Jersey Shore came out I feel a lot of people are sporting the GTL (gym tanning laundry) more then ever!!

So tell me what you think about the whole tanning boom?

Peace

Chelss*